Reflection is not a sign of failure, nor does it mean unsuccessful, in fact, reflection is also another kind of success.
Two people solved the same difficult mathematical problem, they encountered the same difficulties and both asked the teacher for help. One person quickly understood it and felt very satisfied, while the other person did not understand it very well and began to reflect on their own understanding, and found a lot of examples to practice, and finally understood very thoroughly. And also learned a lot of problem solving skills from it.
When two people encountered a difficult problem again, the one who understood it first did not understand it as well as the one who understood it through self-reflection.
In fact, the distance between failure and success lies in introspection, which is also another kind of success. There are two climbers who have agreed to go mountaineering together. Through years of experience in climbing, climber A believes that there is no shortcut to the summit, but to climb up step by step, and as long as there is enough physical strength to persevere, he can reach the summit. And B, he felt that climbing only rely on physical strength is not possible, but also need skills. Then he began to reflect on whether the skills of climbing they have not fully comprehended, or mountaineering also need to consider some environmental factors of the relationship between the remaining factors of their own.
Through introspection, climber B realized that environmental factors also affect their own factors, the two should be coordinated and complementary, so that the benefits to unexpected results.
Sure enough, when the two climbers were climbing, climber B reached the summit first and saw the “most beautiful” view at the top of the mountain.
Success is not without shortcuts, we just need to find it in the reflection.
Reflection in the well is not a weak person who is afraid of difficulties, but in the silent accumulation of strength, in search of their own shortcomings, in an open-minded review of their own, in search of their own deficiencies, and finally will explode out of their own small universe. People who know how to reflect, in fact, there is another kind of success.